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I was surprised when I learned I was having a girl. Throughout the sonogram, I kept asking "but where's the penis? Where's the penis?" as the tech laughed at me. I was the proud mother of a great son and evidently had the idea that I would only have sons. Wrong!

So, I have a delightful little girl, whom I love dearly. But, truth be told, I am so much closer to my son. Gender has nothing to do with the bond I have with him. He and I click in a way that DD and don't. Do I adore my DD? You betcha! With all my heart.

I just want you to reconsider your assumption that you would naturally have a stronger connection to a little girl.

My mother and brother were besties. I had a deep connection to my father. [b]Each child comes with its own Self. Sex is just a part of the complex package you give birth to.[/b]

I have as much fun dressing up DS as I do DD. They share a doll house which, along with the Fisher Price Tea Set, is their favorite toy in the house. They both play with dolls, some of which are called "action figures." You get a lot of the same memories with each.

Sometimes I miss having a third, but like you, I realize that it's a small something I have to deal with as I embrace the great fortune of having the children I do have.

I hope you're able to see opportunities with you boys and not hold back because you think there only something you can enjoy with a DD.
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