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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Man here...during the "courtship" process, I pay for all of the dates. Once dating, I'd say it's about 80/20--I pay for most of the dates and she'll chip in with a few special treats. The lines are also blurred once you've been dating for a while because of groceries/expenses/etc. I may foot the bill for a Whole Foods trip, but then she may pick up Chipotle or Happy Hour.[/quote] Should I continue to offer to split? Is that appreciated? Do I assume he'll pay- that would just make me feel like an ass.[/quote] I'm this PP... After dinner, why don't you say something like "Let me treat us to some ice cream" or "Let's go to XYZ bar and get some drinks, my treat"? That's kind of a middle ground...less awkward than having to repeatedly ask about splitting the check (which can be weird, because it makes dinner seem more like a business transaction), and still would allow you to "contribute" to the dating dynamic.[/quote]
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