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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a guy.  Under no circumstances should a guy pull out the dinner at his place card so soon.  That's like maybe fourth date at the earliest.  You wait until things are definitely getting towards the serious and exclusive stage.

And unless they are OK with sleeping with him, women should reject that date idea and ask to do something different.

Don't walk into something you do not want to do.  Problem solved.[/quote]

Since when did dinner at someone's home or going to someone's home mean you're having sex??? [/quote]

I get where both quoted posters are coming from. Going to someone's home is NOT an explicit agreement to have sex. And anyone who thinks it is not someone you should be dating.

That said, unless you're into public sex, public dates generally remove the opportunities/expectations for sex. Going to someone's home unarguably raises the opportunities for sex, and as evidenced by several posters here, the expectations of some people.

You can't know whether the guy is one of those people with those expectations after just one date. This whole story has proven that. You also can't know whether he will take no for an answer. Luckily this guy did. It's just not safe to go to the home of someone you met online who you've only been on one date with. [/quote]

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