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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You all are nuts! I can't believe how OP is getting piled on. I think it is perfectly reasonable to think that a dinner date is just a dinner date. I'd want to see how a guy lives before deciding about getting more serious, and I don't mean immediately deciding.  Visiting someone at home is just another way to learn what they are like. And if you are interested in a man and he invites you to his home for dinner on the second date, how should a woman respond? "Yes, I'd love that, but only if you are not assuming that my "yes" means I'll be sleeping with you that night." It would be really awkward! If you are attracted to a man but simply don't tend to move that fast, that should be okay. You might not know in advance if you will be ready to sleep with him or not.  Good lord, you PPs who suggest OP was in the wrong are very simple minded.[/quote]

I'm the OP - thank you for this! Honestly, I didn't even think twice about it but I was also very tired from a long three days of viewing/ funeral events and honestly having dinner at his house ( and a great meal - he loves to cook ) sounded very relaxing over going out to a restaurant. I don't see the big deal about someone inviting you over for dinner or vice versa on a second date. And realistically, guys expect sex after the 2-3rd date regardless where it is ...they're always hoping and rushing into the sack. And I agree, it would sound ridicolous to accept dinner at his house and Go through the whole I'm not sleeping with you if that's what you assume.  It's not like I'm not attracted to him and not interested in sleeping with him...that night just wasn't the night!

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