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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What about porn? Morally I have never had a problem with porn or strip clubs, etc. However, I think that porn and the media has made men especially turned off by their wives and girlfriends. They believe there is an endless supply of young beautiful women with perfect bodies who want nothing more than to pleasure the men, no demands or needs of their own.

I was disappointed to learn that some men would prefer to be with one of the models in a porn magazine or would find it easier to masturbate to born than[u] to pay for a cup of coffee or dinner[/u] to take the time to get to know how a real woman feels and reacts sexually. [/quote]

I tend to think that porn and masturbation are mostly distinct from what a person is getting out of sex with their spouse. There is some overlap, and some people have a problem, but mostly one is not a substitute for the other.

That said, the underlined portion of your comment gave me pause. Is there some rule that men should have to do the pursuing? Or is that just a function of the pre-Internet "marketplace" where the amount of male desire for sex exceeded the amount of female desire for sex? And, if so, did the Internet (and the ready availability of porn) change that dynamic? In other words, if a woman wants to show a man that she's a more rewarding experience than porn, shouldn't she be paying for coffee and dinner? [/quote]

Porn adds another option or competes for time, energy, resources that could improve the sex life of the married couple. [/quote]

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