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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Lots of women want sex, but they also want men to work to have sex with them. That's why husbands can get confused about sex being a mutual desire. [/quote]

How should men work to have sex with their wives?[/quote]

Well, they shouldn't - really. Or, at least, it should just be give and take with both pursuing, both being pursued, both being decent, kind, and loving with each other, and both looking forward to getting their rocks off with one another.

*But* what we see recommended over and over and as some kind of common wisdom in the cultural generally is that men are more interested in sex than women. That men have to pursue women but not vice versa. That it's not unexpected for a wife to be disinterested in sex with her husband. And that to cause her to be interested and want to have sex with him, the husband should go above and beyond what his wife does to get him to have sex with her. Chores and date nights are the cliche examples of this.

This sort of advice is at odds with the other notion sometimes advanced - that women are just as sexual as men. [/quote]

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