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Reply to "What's the Point of Chasing Marriage and Kids, Really?!"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, i think I know which thread you wrote, because I recognize your writing: you have a keen sense of the issues but an odd way of distancing yourself from the underlying anxieties. I said it on that thread and I'll say it here: you need therapy. I have a feeling you know the answer to these questions (the answers that are right for you), but you keep asking the same ones over and over and over without any gaining any real insight. You need some one on one time with a good therapist to figure out why you don't have the confidence to accept the answer you know in your gut is right for you. I think you need to accept that it's impossible to live a life without regret. Unmarried and without children, you will wake up one day and say "what the hell have I done". Likewise, married and one kid has significant special needs and you will wake up one day and say "what the hell have I done"? See what I mean? You reflect so much but you don't seem to delve too deeply. Go for it. You're at a good place in your life to grow emotionally, but not from any answers you're going to get from a bunch of strangers on the internet. [/quote]
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