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One thing I've found in my long and varied experience is that kids are often not traumatized by the things you think they'll be traumatized by. 
Sometimes they turn around years later and accuse you of things so minor that you don't even remember it ever happened, such as on one occasion refusing to give them money for the school store because you didn't have any cash that day.

[b]This is my issue with therapy - in some instances it enables some people to hold on to small grudges and blow them out of proportion, instead of placing responsibility for moving on squarely on the patient.
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What a horrible person you are.[/quote]

Um, how exactly? I'm NP here and I definitely understand what PP is saying. She is in no way saying that therapy isn't helpful or necessary in many many cases but she does point out that its at least possible that it can turn to the unnecessarily introspective or dare I say even narcissistic , since its by nature "me" centered, and sometimes, I think that causes more issues than it solves in cases where there is little actual trauma or slight and just a matter of life that not everything is going to go your way or be perfect.[/quote]

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