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[quote=Anonymous]I have to explain this from a male perspective.  I have a wife who I love very much.  She is the mother of my children, but she complains all the time about being fat.  She doesn't feel sexy, and our intimacy is non existent.  She doesn't want me to touch her because she feels disgusting.  Ok.  The only thing standing in the way of our ability to have a healthy marriage is food.  I wish so badly that she would make better food choices...not for me, but for her.  Once she starts to lose and feel better about herself, we hopefully will get back on track because I miss my wife.  I miss holding her.  Unfortunately, that is not the case.  While she rejects me, she keeps eating more which makes her feel worse, which makes our relationship worse.  I need to do something, because the path we are on is not working.  I see her buying and eating the foods that will make her fat, the foods that make her miserable, the foods that are ruining our relationship.  I feel like at this point I have to say something.  Partly because I am frustrated and partly because I want her to know that she is sabotaging herself. [/quote]

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