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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Time to outsource your needs, dude.[/quote]

Knock yourself out.  Just dont act surprised or offended when your wife files for divorce.  :) [/quote]

He should file himself. She's not holding up her end of the bargain.[/quote]

The bargain? Women are not obligated to have sex with anyone, including their spouse.  Sex should be a mutually enjoyable experience.  If she's not liking it, then she's not going to want it.

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Agreed 100%

I wonder if you did a survey of men, whether the men who had attitudes like "women are obligated to give men sex as part of the marriage 'bargain'" are the men who aren't getting any? And whether their attitudes caused their wives to stop wanting to have sex or whether the sex aspect of their relationships went south and then they adopted a more transactional worldview to protect their feelings?

Some very interesting considerations. I do feel for anyone who is sexually unfulfilled in their marriages, but I think making it a transaction is the wrong way to go.[/quote]

Probably. I think some men get married because they want to be guaranteed sex- that's pretty much the only reasoning.  And often, a woman who isn't confident in herself may go along with it, because she thinks she should get married and here is this seemingly good guy wanting to pair up.

And then, when they're mired in the trenches of marriage life and raising-children-life, they realize how totally incompatible they are.

[b]So it self selects.  A man who is not that good in bed is going to pick a woman who is not sexually experienced or confident.  That woman is not going to enjoy sex all that much because she's never had great sex, and certainly isn't having it with her husband.  It's a cycle. [/b][/quote]
Ok. That's one of the most idiotic things I've read on this topic.[/quote]

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