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[quote=Anonymous]OP I'm on your side. Of course you have a right to know who is caring for your child. I don't see how this is unreasonable.

I can't help but feel that many of the above posters are just trolling. 
If they are parents, I challenge any of the naysayers to say they would be completely happy for their young child to be in the care of someone they do not know for several hours to several days, particularly if they fear the person has no means to contact them in an emergency. 
Likewise his asking the child to lie is unconscionable. It will confuse her, cause anxiety and down right teach her that lying is ok and keeping things from her mum is ok. This opens up the child to other dangers- if she's learned that it's ok to keep something from her mum, in a case where she is being molested and told not to tell her parents, she is less likely to do so. We all teach our children that, no matter what, they should never keep secrets from us and never be afraid to tell anything and here the pp's are saying it's perfectly fine. I just do not believe we are dealing with reasonable and responsible adults here. 
It behooves you ex., no matter how bad your relationship is, to tell you who is caring for your child ( particularly as your agreement says you should be informed of any big changes) and not to make her believe that it's fine to lie to you.

I feel for you OP and I hope you can sort things out with your ex husband.

I have no dog in this fight. I am not divorced or separated  and my kids live with both of their parents. [/quote]

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