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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So you've already checked out then. Okay. And maybe you are looking forward to being a PT/50% mom. That's fine, too. Get your financial life in order, develop a game plan, etc.

But don't blindside him. Just because you *think* you'll be cool with everything doesn't mean he will (or you will).

Best of luck to you.[/quote]

AGAIN, sigh, we've been to counseling and talked at great length about this.

See??  The "blame the OP game".  [/quote]

I've  been reading this thread because I would like to leave my DH too. He's not abusive, a cheater, or an alcoholic, but I have some solid reasons.  A couple months ago, I was ready to call a lawyer. Then I played out the scenario in my head: seeing my kids only PT, having to make parenting decisions with someone I will likely get along worse with, the fact I will be tethered to DC (away from my family and closest friends) bc of a custody arrangement, realizing my in-laws who I love dearly will hate me, etc. Now I'm not sure it's worth it. Not because I feel obligated to please everyone else in my life, but because the situation seems like it will be far worse than the one I'm in. I think that's all some of the other posters are trying to say.  I'm sure you are resourceful enough to come up with the right steps. Good luck. [/quote]

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