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Reply to "Cold feet ever since I got engaged and wedding is this weekend!"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So many concerns, both big and small. For example: Fiance isn't super nice to service people: valet guys, the maid, waiters, etc. He is really nice to bartenders, which he says it's not that he's not nice to others, [b]it's just that he's nervous and when he has a drink, he relaxes and can be "nice" aka his true self[/b].[/quote] red flag! and it is "others" who are pushing you into this. Its normal to be nervous, but not for a YEAR OP: It may not seem like it right now, but it is much easier to cancel a wedding than to get a divorce. Some couples go into marriage thinking if this does not work, there is always divorce. But it is not that easy, and it usually takes years. A whole year of doubts -- I would cancel. In fact, I did cancel. Never looked back. Met someone else, got married to him -- its been 15 years now and still going strong. I have never for one minute regretted cancelling that first one. Now just a memory ...[/quote]
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