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[quote=Anonymous]I think we need to add to this thread a dimension of "how might you call off a wedding at the very last minute with the minimum of embarrassment and hassle.?" Because that is what OP needs. OP, you a re rushing into marriage because there is a wedding ceremony planned.
My suggestion: tell friends and family, "I'm having so many pre-wedding jitters that I wouldn't want to have a huge event where I was not showing [Fiance] my total enthusiasm for our marriage. Although it is incredibly awkward to do this, I feel in the long run it will be better if I can start off married life without visibly displaying my anxiety to all our friends and family."
And since it is probably a lot of $ that you can't recoup for the reception, invite your own side of family/friends to join you still at the reception, and make it a family reunion. People love those. Spend some $ arranging a restaurant meal for Fiances family on the other side of town, so they can have their own family reunion. People are probably already committed to being in town for the wedding. And the appeal of the wedding is often seeing family, so just turn it into that.
So much easier and cheaper than a divorce. Really. If you aren't wild about this man now, it will only get worse once you are married.[/quote]

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