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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Isn't it funny that people who are divorced and in unhappy marriages encourage the OP to divorce, and those in happy marriages or marriages that has seen its share of ups and downs are encouraging her to give the marriage a chance.

Op needs validation from internet strangers?  Good luck to her![/quote]

Yep.  Misery loves company.  [/quote]

I'll say it once more. I have made my decision.  I am not looking for validation. I am not asking anyone's opinion on whether I should stay or go.  I am asking what steps I should take first in starting the divorce proceedings.  If you would simply READ what I wrote, instead of salivating at the opportunity to bully someone, it sure would save a lot of everyone's time.
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I don't understand why everyone is jumping on OP.  She asked some simple questions.  She didn't ask if she should consider staying in an unhappy marriage?  Stop beating up on her and allow her to make her decision. She seems pretty level headed and has taken the account of her children into consideration she said, believe her.  I grew up in an unhappy married home, my parents are still unhappy but together.  They both feed off each other, it's not a pretty scene, it's their choice.  I believe in allowing one to make their choice.  OP said her DH is not happy either, and consoling has failed.

OP, good luck to you. I hope you see happier days in your future. [/quote]

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