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[quote=Anonymous]I know that I am going to get shit for saying this, but here it goes. I would ask him to get an apartment and tell him that you living together is not working. Figure out before you confront him why it's better that you stay in the house. The kids should probably stay with the parent that is in the house to lessen the blow at this point. Before this starts. Figure out how much rent you can afford on just your salary. You may need to be renting a very small place for a while with bunk beds. Or if the two of you own a home without a mortgage, can you pay his part of the house off (mortgage payments to him). Start thinking about what kind of person he will be like in a divorce. I agree with the advice about not having the kids there when either parent is moving out. Will you go after him for full custody? Will he challenge you for full custody? What are your house hold assets? What about your/his debt? Will you be uprooting the kids to a different school district for lower price rent? Just start making these lists now. Also, try googling understanding divorce proceedings and children. [/quote]
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