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[quote=Anonymous]I'd also vote for the brother. I think that my older siblings were named as my guardians in my parents' will (they were 17 years older than I). Obviously, it would have changed their life significantly if my parents had died, but I think that's a given either way. Odds are good that you won't die tomorrow...but the odds increase a bit with every passing year. And with every passing year, he'll be better situated to care for the kids, and your mom will be less well situated. Maybe you could write a letter that expresses your hope that your mother will assist your son to the fullest extent possible, maybe taking the children when your son needs a break to be a wild 20-something? Something that will make your mother feel not snubbed and like you did want her to be part of helping raising your younger kids. [/quote]
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