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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Definitely. But we have two under two and he works 90 hours a week. He is well aware of the fact that he would need to cut way back at work if I didn't stay home and he doesn't want to do that. [/quote] Wow that is really sad. I guess neither of you think having a father is important for children. I SAH, but yea, no, my kids need a dad. He's just as important in their lives (maybe more important because I have boys) as I am.[/quote] Ugh, why would a father be more important than a mother? Especially when the mother is spending the majority of her time with the kids? You have some very outdated ideas about gender, my friend. [/quote] read about parental bonding with same sex parent. I'm not gonna spell it out for you.[/quote] I have read about it, and that school of thought is incredibly outdated and based on patriarchal ideas of gender. [/quote] Quite opposite, that thought is the actual antithesis of patriarchal ideas of gender. Sorry to unnerve you with the facts. Maybe your kids can make an appointment with dad next month.[/quote] The belief that children need a same-sex parent to bond with is ridiculously outdated and absurd. [/quote] Incarceration rates don't lie.[/quote] But they are influenced by a multitude of actors, most importantly the average much lower income of single moms. [/quote] Don't be lazy. The research is there across all SES groups. Sorry it does not fit into your fantasy of what is going on under your roof (or might I say what is NOT going on under your roof, which is clearly an available father).[/quote]
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