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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you literally keep asking exactly the same question over and over again, no matter the variety of opinions and advice you've gotten in response. You are so deeply stuck on this issue, I don't think there's anything DCUM can do to help you. I'd recommend therapy.[/quote]

Yes.

This isn't about stuff - this is about ancient hurts and slights.  It's about long festering feelings of resentment, injustice, loss, favoritism, grief, etc...

OP - only you have power over how much this all affects you emotionally.  Only you.  Give them the coins or not.  Fight over the diamonds or not.  Take your sister to court over the execution of the will or not.  Get angry and upset and rail against what is happening, or accept the reality and decide not to let it rule your emotions.

You're giving everyone else in this scenario the power - especially your sister.  You're a grown-up now.  She does not have to rule your life.  You can walk away.  You can decide these material goods don't matter.  You can choose not to engage.[/quote]

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