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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Geez, I still have photos of my XH, wedding pics, etc.  My DH also has a box of photos of his exes and old love letters, etc.  It's just memories from the past, what's the big deal??[/quote]

OP, my DH's first wife was pretty and thin.  Now I am schlumpy after our second child, trying to lose the weight, but sure I feel insecure.

He still has her pictures, but it is just life.  He adores me and our family.  In fact when she recently came up (we were talking about a dog he once owned with her) his only comment was "there is a reason why I am no longer married to XXX."  Actually, there are many.

You are likely  hormonal, tired, and insecure about your body right now.  You can accept that. But you do need to recognize those things and let it go.  Pour your energy into your family and be grateful for your amazing DH.

P.S.  I still have a t-shirt and pictures of the ridiculously hot guy I was with for several years in my 20s.  But there is NO way I would want to be married to him even though the sex was amazing and he was intelligent, fascinating and generally even nice.  Thank GOODNESS I have my husband.  I am guessing your DH probably thinks similar thoughts about you.
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