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[quote=Anonymous]I love my parents and ILs, too, but no way would I want them to be at my house overnight for 4 days straight every danged month. Same goes with friends, siblings, etc. I love them but I value my home life with dh and the kids. I don't want to feel pressured to keep the place guest ready and I don't want to feel obligated to keep guests' dietary preferences in mind while making dinner. Or their schedules in mind while trying to go about my own routine (showers, playing music at night, etc). Nor do I want an audience when I'm exercising indoors. A visit once a month or even once a week during the afternoon or early evening (or in my case even the morning) is one thing. But showing up with suitcases for check in...no. Some folks have more of an open door, my house is your house sort of home. That might be good for extroverts. But introverts like me need our own little private oasis - that is home.[/quote]
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