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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I bet the OP stays home and bears the brunt of every single thing related to the visits, not just the work, but the social aspects. Her husband probably feels free to work those days and doesn't help much when he is at home. [/quote]

Jumping to these kinds of conclusions are SO typical of this board sometimes. Stop projecting your own shit onto each thread. Just like those who can't possibly fathom wanting to see someone ANYONE other than their spouse and kids for 4 day per month. Guess what? Some families are different? I can certainly imagine that having nightmare inlaws (I have friends who have some and friends who actually have horrid parents!) would be beyond stressful and can actually take a toll on a marriage just as I can easily imagine (or know) that there are plenty of grandparents who like spending that much time with their grandkids and that there are really good IL relationships out there. My DH spends 1 on 1 time with both of his FILs (I have a dad and step dad) when we are visiting because, gasp, he likes them.[/quote]

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