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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP, thats not true. Most men would prefer a blow job over waiting indefinitely for their wives to feel horny naturally. OP needs to fake it until she makes it.[/quote]

DH here, about five months into this kind of drought, and for the record: I would not prefer a service job or duty sex.

I would prefer it if my wife said "gee, I would have fun playing, but my vajayjay is out of action, so let me play with you", but only if she was into it.  Otherwise it's kind of insulting/patronizing.  My wife is totally NOT into it, and given that, I'm happier taking care of myself rather than extracting chore/duty sex out of her.[/quote]

YOU are awesome and mature.

And actually, when the duty/obligation/demanding attitude is taken out of sex, it's a lot easier to think about one's own pleasure and thus get turned on and into sex.  THIS is the attitude more men need to have.[/quote]

If you guys only knew how many pity/mercy/take one the team fucks/blow jobs we throw you, your heads would spin. :P [/quote]

+1. I'm the PP who suggested this earlier. I've definitely thought "let me go fuck his brains out" so that he passes out before my TV show comes on and I can have some peace.LOL![/quote]

And I'll bet that, on more than a few occasions, what started out as sex "for him" ended up being a good time for you too. A lot of times, plain old inertia gets in the way of sex, but once you get going, it's enjoyable. [/quote]

Exactly! That was my original point. If I'd waited until I was aroused to have sex every time, I probably wouldn't have had sex for the first year. Sometimes you just have to go for it and then you get into it. It's hard sometimes to make the mental shift otherwise (from mommy to sexual being).[/quote]

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