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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is the OP.  i understand my issues with my husband. i understand that im not a petfect spouse. I undertand if it wasnt her, it would have likely been someone else.  Even if she has less tha 2% culpability in the fallout of all this, [b] i really am weirded out by this petson's profession of "helping and healing" people[/b], considering the foreseeable harm that resulted. I don't think I would have had as much of a hard time wrapping  my head around this if her profession had been for instance selling washing machines.

To the PP, clearly you are here to be mean.  What's wrong with you?[/quote]

OP, first, I am terribly sorry for all that you are coping with.  My heart goes out to you.

I do think you are romanticizing physicians, as a group, however.  I have a chronic illness that was particularly bad when I was a teenager and young adult, and I spent a lot of time in hospitals at that time.  Many of the docs were not warm or caring people.  Some were excellent, well-trained, knowledgeable physicians, but they were not people who I felt cared about ME as a person.  Does that make sense?  And many of these people were in pediatric sub-specialties!

I would just say that while some physicians certainly fit your description it is, sadly, not something that applies to all or even most.  So even if you set aside the argument that others are making, that professional and personal lives are separate, I think you are making general assumptions about the character of people who are doctors that is unfortunately not accurate.  [/quote]

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