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[quote=Incognita][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Incognita]OP you're in denial. If you do believe him, no harm in confirming with the other woman right? And if he is so open now he shouldn't have a problem with you speaking to her yourself, or listening in on the conversation. It seems more like you don't want to know the truth so you want to accept we just kissed story.

At 9pm he has more than enough time to make that trip twice, sorry you are lying to yourself. Also, not sure what being excited have to do with anything, he could be excited after making love to his lover in his car.. Seriously get the truth.[/quote]

+1.  Also think back to your first dates with a guy once you were out of college especially if you met him over the internet. Were you willing to meet a guy for the first time after 9pm at night by yourself?  If a guy told me that the only time he could meet up with me was 9:30pm and we had only been texting/talking on the phone until that point, I would find out when he was available to meet earlier like right after work or on the weekend.  That's also kind of late for the first few dates unless it was tickets for something like a comedy club, going to a jazz club etc type of event.

Odds are that he has met with this woman before at least enough that she felt comfortable meeting him late and past the time for traditional first date things ...unless she is married too.[/quote]

Good point. I am single and if someone asked to meet me at 930 pm I would laugh at them.  Most women want to meet someone at a reasonable hour in a public place. Most coffee shops in he suburbs are closed at this time, and I doubt the ones that are open are fine with a couple making out in the middle of the store.  Smells like bullshit to me.[/quote]

Furthermore, if OP really believes there was no time, I'm not sure I see a "I'm really busy I can only stop by to give you a kiss and leave" as a first meeting. The woman either knows he is sneaking around, or it's not the first time. [/quote]

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