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[quote=Anonymous][quote]I would immediately write an email to the ILs and CC hubby: I understand that you also went out the night you took our children in to babysit them. I further understand that you hired a sitter. Next time please inform me of such changes or if there is a change of plans. I'm glad everything worked out fine but this sort of thing should not be a surprise I hear from my kindergartner. Thanks, see you soon![/quote] Why on earth would you do that? If they told your husband about it, and he said ok, I can't see how they are at fault. [u]He[/u] is at fault for not telling you and making sure you agreed. I don't think your in laws are under any obligation to get the consent of both parents separately. They probably reasonably assumed your husband would discuss it with you, or would not have agreed unless it was ok by both of you. [/quote]
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