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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The hardest part will be when you find out it wasn't just her doing but your brother's as well. For years we blamed my SIL for keeping my brother away until it dawned on us he wanted it that way. [/quote] This. I have two SILs who are, um, less than ideal, and both resisted spending time with my husband's family. One of my BILs said to his wife, "This is not okay. I miss my family and I want to spend time with them." And he figured out a way to make that happen. The other jsut goes along with what his wife wants, which means all holidays with her family and never with his, etc. And when my husband or his parents express sadness about it, I just say, "Yes, it is sad, but it's his choice, isn't it?" [/quote]
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