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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP Here: Really? We talk 2-3 time's a day. He calls me every morning after he wakes up and every afternoon on his way to work and then again at night when he gets off work and is on his way home. We talk about EVERYTHING. If he has a bad day at work or family issues, he calls me to discuss them and ask me for advice. I've always been the person he tells things to (since we were 17) and he still looks at me as that person. For you to say I am "obsessed"  and to "leave him alone" is a bit out there. I am not FORCING him to talk to me every day or at all. We've remained in eachothers lives because we care about each other and have been friends for 9 years. Obviously I know he is engaged and I'm just baffled that he would lie about it to me. He's complained to me about her in the past and issues they have had so idk what is going on but I think there is a bigger reason.[/quote]
This is weird.  It is not normal to be talking to a non-BF 2-3 times per day.  It's especially weird because he has a GF/fiance.

What do you get out of this friendship?  It seems like he likes having you dangling on a string, but what does the friendship offer you?  I would stop being friends with this guy, but it's easier to see that from a third-party perspective.[/quote]

OP Here: Honestly, I know I'm going to get ripped apart for this but since we were 17, he's been my best friend. He was the one I could tell ANYTHING to and still is that person to me. I know that is sad to some people but he's been here for me more then some of my friends have. I went through some rough stuff when I was 18-19 and he was the most supportive person ever. He flew to come see me as a surprise when he knew my life was hell. Even though he's lying to me about some major stuff, he STILL is the one that gives me the best advice and is here for me through rough times and vise versa. We have always been that to each other and it hasn't changed. I know it's weird that we talk all the time when he has a gf or fiancé or whatever but it's just how it's been and to be honest, I never felt bad about it just because we've been in each others lives for 9 years now and she has only been in his for 2. [/quote]

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