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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ok OP tough love time.  I was in your shoes (but with an amazing husband) and I was a bitch. My anxiety and depression (lack of sleep) had driven me almost insane.  So I get how you are feeling.  HOWEVER:

I see lots of EXCUSES in your posts.  You have received many support and suggestions and I know you are overwhelmed and tired (but it sounds like your DC does sleep) but you need to make some effort to fix the problem.  It goes both ways.

First- stop making excuses for the OB and not having a PCP.  Call the hospital where you delivered and see if they can help.  Did you deliver here?  There IS a way to find out if you have depression NOW rather than waiting 3-4 weeks.
Second- you need to get into counseling with your DH if you want to save your marriage.  You can bring the baby if you have to but life will NOT get better if you do not address your marriage.
Third- Do you have family?  I did not read you mentioning them but I suppose they are not in the area?  You need to lean on your family for help.  This is the time you need HELP.  If they wont help you look at your finances and get a helper during the week.

Listen, I feel for you I do because I was there a few months ago.  BUT you will not get out of this without doing something about it.  Stop the excuses and think about the next steps to take to get you and your life and marriage back on track.[/quote]

I did set up an appointment for tomorrow.  It's just with a counselor, but it is what is available now.  I did not deliver in DC - where yes, all my family is - I'm not sure who to call at the hospital here.

As far as being a bitchy roommate, I don't want sex.  I turn him down when he wants it.  I am beyond terrified of getting pregnant again.  I cry a lot and tell him he doesn't understand.  YES, that's all I'm doing that makes him call me bitchy.  Turning down sex and crying.No, it doesn't make sense.[/quote]

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