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I really didn't see it that way, but it makes sense that he'd take it that way.  I was doing research and found it interesting that lack of a support system has been found to be causal, not just a correlating factor.  And the support system the research talks about isn't your spouse, it's friends, family, and the healthcare system.  I know your spouse can't be the end all be all as support goes.  I don't know if I can apologize for it this far out though.  [/quote]

Friends and family is very important. Do you talk to them frequently?  Try to think of DH as wounded. He is hurt and angry too. Try from this moment forward to consider his (reasonable) needs and what it would take to fulfill those needs. He may then be more understanding of your needs. I know that might not be the way things should work, but I've found with men that's oftentimes how it works. Talking to a therapist should help you. He hasn't divorced you yet. Even if it is indeed too late for him mentally, I would treat it as if it's not. [/quote]

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