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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My MIL is a nice person and tries to be supportive/not intrusive but I still can't wait until we move and don't have to deal with her and FIL.  What MILs don't understand is we DILs want to make our own home with their sons. [b]You had your time with him when he was in your home, now let us have ours[/b]![/quote]

How very immature. Do you really think your spouse should cut out his family just because you are married?  Are you that insecure?  The human heart (at least for most of us, not sure about you) has an infinite capacity to love.  I am not a mil and have many, many years to go, but I can't help but wonder if many of the mil problems are actually insecure and controlling DILs.[/quote]

I completely agree with your point! The problem is, I am, in fact, insecure and I have my reasons for it. I would never prevent DH from seeing his family, but his mom is pretty nasty to me and tried to become the head of our household once she moved closer to us. After many many battles, years of battles really, and many thousands spent on anti-depressants (for me, not her), therapy and such, I now encourage DH and DC to spend time with her without me and I only meet with her on public. [/quote]

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