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[quote=Anonymous]Many years ago, my DH and I took ballroom classes. I had a very hard time not leading. Not because I knew how to lead, but because (a) DH is not a good dancer and (b) I didn't really understand the concept of leading. He has come to see this as a moral failing of mine - I can't let him lead. (He is very type A, not comfortable when not in control.) From reading posts, it seems that it may be a skill, not just to lead but to follow. Interesting. Not a moral failing of mine at all but just never taught? Will have to reframe it next time it comes up in therapy![/quote]
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