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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]At this point I would ask her to please not contact me again and wish her the best.[/quote] Interestingly, she has had a workplace stalker/bully herself. I think she made contact because I didnt call her back the FIRST time, and now she has had time to create a narrative in which I not only called her and gave her info she didnt want at that time, I didnt deliver the thing she asked for. This way, she can avoid facing the fact that I went through some time and effort above and beyond- which does NOT fit with her victim complex. [/quote] To reiterate what others have said, I think you now need to disengage. Disengage. Ignore her messages and let things cool off. If you happen to run across her again at some point in the future and she asks, maybe use that moment to explain why you felt it was time to end the friendship.[/quote]
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