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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are there really people in the world who have never said something mean during an argument? I ask in all seriousness -- this is an eye-opener for me if true. I assumed we'd all had our moments saying things we've later regretted.[/quote]

I may have told him to stop acting like  a jerk, but no, never anything like this! Holy shit. Sad.[/quote]

I purposely don't name call or say irretrievably bad things during arguments. I say them all I want in my head but as posters have shown, people won't forget ugly stuff you say to them. You won't be able to fix some things you say. I try to fight fair.

My husband has never said anything as hurtful as these but he has on occasion accused me of having qualities that he told me he disliked about his ex and that stings. For instance, they had a sexless marriage the last 7 years. If I go a few days without initiating, he will occasionally say something like "So you don't like having sex anymore." Which isn't true at all. I feel like my actions get a lot of unfair and misplaced judgment just because SHE used to do certain things in the past. It's never a direct comparison like "Jane used to do that too and I hated  it" but that's the subtext and it stings. [/quote]

I know everyone is different, but this is shit I couldn't put up with. Passive aggression for me is worse than straight out aggression like name calling. At least stuff is fully out there for the couple to do with, unlike this crap. [/quote]

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