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I think that after 14 years with him I'm probably a better judge of that than you are.[/quote]

I'm a guy. It only shows you have consistently poor judgment and it hasn't improved in 14 years. I've never told a loved one to "get off her fat ass" and I never will. Amazing what some people will put up with.[/quote]

My judgement is "consistently poor" because of... what, exactly?  Because I think my husband is a good and loving person despite the fact that he's said maybe 5 or so truly mean things to me, in the heat of anger, in 14 years?  Because I didn't divorce him over it?  And who says I "put up with it"?  I packed a bag and walked out the door that night (which was a childish thing for me to do, but I was hurt and emotional and wasn't going to keep arguing and say things that *I* would regret later).  He called while I was driving to my parents home, apologized, asked me to come home, and I did.

I'm sure you've never said an unkind thing to anyone you cared about, ever.  And I'm sure your wife would tell us you have no character flaws at all.[/quote]

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