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[quote=Anonymous]We went through 5 years of IF over a decade ago. Things finally really turned around after we had a plan of what we'd do if treatment failed. We seriously considered our options and finances and what we had left in emotional reserves (this was much tougher on me - female- than DH) and decided we would adopt internationally. We worked on that as well as finishing up our treatment. We set an end to treatment. Once those decisions were made, my depressed attitude improved tremendously. Basically, knowing that we'd have a child either biologically or through adoption within a year made all the difference. I think you have to really do the soul searching about what your and DH's bottom line is and figure out the next and "final" steps, and get to work on them for it to get past the seemingly endless part of IF. Good luck OP. There are many of us who have followed a similar path who've had similar heartbreak.[/quote]
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