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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you have a female friend and you think she's lying to you. What is the correct thing to do?

If you have a female friend and you think she talks about you behind your back. What is the correct thing to do?

If your friend is upset about her marriage. What is the correct thing to say?

I'm obviously choosing the wrong answers.[/quote]

1. What's the lie and how close is the friendship? If it's a new or casual friend, I might just cut them loose. Don't engage. I don't have relationships with people who lie to me. If it's a close friend, I have to believe there is a reason for the lie. Does she think she has to hide something from me? Is she trying to spare my feelings? Does she think I would disapprove? Depending on here circumstance I might want to ask her about just to make sure everything is okay.

2. I'm not friends with people who talk about me behind my back. I would distance and disengage. If it's a close, longtime friend, I would have to assume something serious is going on and I would ask her. This is rare, though.

3. "I am so sorry you're going through that. It sounds hard. You can vent as much you want. I hope things get better." Etc. etc. [/quote]

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