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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you have a female friend and you think she's lying to you. What is the correct thing to do?

If you have a female friend and you think she talks about you behind your back. What is the correct thing to do?

If your friend is upset about her marriage. What is the correct thing to say?

I'm obviously choosing the wrong answers.[/quote]

Depends on what the lie is about and what they say behind my back. Hey, we all do it. Let's not pretend any of us are above lying or talking about people behind their backs. If you want to remain friends, why not say "I'm hurt you would say xyz." Because that's what it's really about, right? When friends are upset about marriage, I swear, until divorce papers are filed (hell, even after in my case once*) you don't say shit about their spouses. You say, "that must be so hard," "I'm so sorry you're going through this," "is there anything I can do?" Noncommittal.

*Friend complained nonstop about her husband. I kept my mouth ZIPPED until after the divorce was final and then finally opened up. Damn if she didn't get back together with the guy post-divorce. They dated for two years. But in the meantime, she told him shit I said, she told me shit he said. When they started dating, I said, "that's totally your decision and whatever makes you happy, but I'll never hang out with him." It was OK. We remained friends after that, after she split, and through her next divorce too. [/quote]

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