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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can play the game...but that doesn't mean those women are my real friends. I can socialize with all of DS buddies' wives, but if I don't trust them then I don't let them in to see the real me. I keep it superficial and I don't go out of my way to make plans with them. They probably think we are friends but they don't have my heart the way my true friends do. [/quote]

The fact that you feel the need to "play the game" with people, an entire gender in fact, and don't see a problem with such behavior or see the hypocrisy of your rationale speaks volumes.  You say you dislike women and cannot befriend them because they are untrustworthy and yet YOU are the one being disingenuous.  You're the one keeping it superficial and you're the one not letting them in to see the real you - whether their actions warrant such trust or not you deliberately pass judgement and decree ALL women despicable.  Lol - and you wonder why you have trouble being friends with them.  
Hmmph...you're every bit of a bitch as these women you claim to despise and even more so and I'm sure women see it.  I'm sure women see it and want no part of being anything but a casual acquaintance with you and you're pissed because they see you for who YOU are and not the other way around.  That's why you prefer the company of men - not because they're more sociable or you're personalities are more proportionate, but because women don't want shit to do with you.  [/quote]

OP here. Not PP. but I do understand her frustration. What is the secret to all of your successful female friendships? Please don't just say be nice. It seems like women are very easy to offend or they take me wrong. I'll give you an example. My friends husband was constantly inviting a girl from high school that he used to be interested in to their parties. My friend hated it and would tell him. He was also lying about text and emails from her. One night when we went out for drinks she was balling her eyes out about this. Saying she that she is so alone and if he leaves her she'll have no one.... I listen and tried to calm her down. I asked whats the worst that would happen? And would she ever consider leaving him? I wanted her to realize she won't actually die. I also said that he's acting like an ass and that we love her and will be her friend no matter what. A few days later she tells him I that I think he's an ass and that I think she should leave him. So that starts a fight between her and I.

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Well, hell, these are the guy friends you have, and you want more??! This isn't an example of "women." This is an example of a woman who's been cheated on, lied to, likely manipulated, and is reacting in a very raw way, and taking it out on someone who is not her husband that she can lash out to. For whatever it's worth, I would have said and done the same thing, but whenever you weigh in on someone's relationship, you always run the risk of being the bad guy when they reconcile. That's just the way it is. [/quote]

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