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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can play the game...but that doesn't mean those women are my real friends. I can socialize with all of DS buddies' wives, but if I don't trust them then I don't let them in to see the real me. I keep it superficial and I don't go out of my way to make plans with them. They probably think we are friends but they don't have my heart the way my true friends do. [/quote]

The fact that you feel the need to "play the game" with people, an entire gender in fact, and don't see a problem with such behavior or see the hypocrisy of your rationale speaks volumes.  You say you dislike women and cannot befriend them because they are untrustworthy and yet YOU are the one being disingenuous.  You're the one keeping it superficial and you're the one not letting them in to see the real you - whether their actions warrant such trust or not you deliberately pass judgement and decree ALL women despicable.  Lol - and you wonder why you have trouble being friends with them.  
Hmmph...you're every bit of a bitch as these women you claim to despise and even more so and I'm sure women see it.  I'm sure women see it and want no part of being anything but a casual acquaintance with you and you're pissed because they see you for who YOU are and not the other way around.  That's why you prefer the company of men - not because they're more sociable or you're personalities are more proportionate, but because women don't want shit to do with you.  [/quote]

The group of women I was mentioning are DHs friends wives. I don't trust them as real friends because they eviscerate their other friends behind their backs. I have heard this directly... Talk about how terrible her clothes, hair, parenting, weight etc etc.

Is that not despicible? Should I aim for these people to be my real friends? My therapist says NO.

And again its not that I don't have any female friends. My best friend is female and we have been close since 7th grade.

All I'm saying is I don't automatically try to make friends with women because I have been bullied so much by them. If you haven't run in to people like that then great.

Or maybe you ARE someone like that.[/quote]

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