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Reply to "Friend hurt my feelings....am I bring overly sensitive?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I would be a little hurt if someone told me I look tired, even if I hear the care and concern in their voice. In fact this very thing happened a few months ago, when I'd been working long, long days. It smarted for a moment, then I let it go. Of course this was a neighbor, not a friend. I'm wondering if your friendship isn't fraught with other issues. Not to get all preachy, but I think we have to know our emotional personality and not care so much what others think so long as we know the response is within an acceptable range (i.e., that doesn't cause anxiety or destructive behavior). As for the friend wanting to get together with a friend, that can be tricky social territory. This has also happened to me a few times. It hurt when I was in my 30's. It's kind of irrational. Now that I am older, I see it's part of life, people connecting with friends of friends.[/quote]
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