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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Jen's a jerk for handling the invite thing that way, but Kim's at fault for not agreeing to the joint party in the first place.

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Why is Jen announcing she's having a party on that day being a jerk, but Kim doing so was fine.  Jen's the only one who offered a solution.  [/quote]

Huh?  Jen knew Kim's kid's party was planned for a specific day, and sent an invite before Kim did for that same day.[/quote]

Kim and Jen found out that they were both planning a party for the same day at the same time.  They both found out when they asked the same relative.

Jen then tried to find a solution and Kim, who said "No, not negotiating" so Jen didn't negotiate either and got her invite out first.

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Can you read?  Are you Jen?

[i]Kim messages Jen to tell her that Isabelle’s party is definitely going to be on the day in question and gives her the time. Jen responds with “Fine.” The next day, Kim receives an e-vite, sent to the entire family, for Aiden’s birthday party on the same day.[/i][/quote]

My understanding is this.

Jen was planning a party.

Jen found out that Kim was also planning a party the same day.

Jen reached out to Kim.

Jen suggested a solution.

Kim rejected Jen's solution and sent a message saying "Isabelle's birthday is definitely going to be that day".  Thereby signalling that she wasn't interested in problem solving.

Jen went ahead with her previous plans.

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I think it's the other way - Kim was planning a party.  Jen found out and wanted the same day?[/quote]

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