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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Well, that half needs to keep away from my DH and he from them if he wants to keep me.  
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Let me get this straight:

1. you have been married for many years, but have always been jealous.
2. early in your marriage, he took a business trip and one of the people on that trip was a woman.
3. he did not tell you that this woman was going because he did not want to make you insanely jealous.
4. he has taken several overseas assignments that were multiple years long.
5. you are unwilling to accompany him on these assignments because you would have to quit your job and remove your child from school.
6. he has refused to look for other work.
7. when you visited during one of his long overseas assignments, he introduced you to his friends and coworkers, half of whom were female, and kissed them on the cheek in greeting.
8. one of these friends invited you to her home for dinner with her daughter, and you are suspicious because she and her daughter are attractive.
9. he took you to a fashion show, where there were women present (because so many men attend fashion shows) and you left in a huff because he was talking to the people standing next to him while he was buying you a drink.
10. you have demanded that he stop being friends with anyone female, and he has refused to acquiesce.

Does that about cover it?

It sounds to me like what we have here is the story of a man who works internationally who is married to someone who refuses to participate in married life with him for periods of many months (if not years) at a time, who is perfectly okay with saying "You should quit your job but I refuse to quit mine" and who is telling him who he is and is not allowed to be friends with, while also accusing him of having an affair and then saying she does not believe him when he denies it. [/quote]

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