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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, it is really ok to stand up for yourself. You need to find a place where you are ok, even if it is not ideal. You might also consider seeing your MIL less, seeing her in public places where she can't foist furniture in you, and/or sending DH and using that time to so something nice for yourself. Anything you can do to relieve that mental burden. It sounds like you need a break.[/quote] Thanks. That helps, and you're right. I am under a lot of stress and this is only one example of the issues with MIL, frankly one of the less serious ones. I really didn't want things to be like this, I wanted to have a good relationship with her, but it has gotten to a bad place and I don't feel comfortable at all around her - being around her gives me a lot of anxiety and I always need several days to recover from one short visit. It's really not a good situation. I will continue to try to figure it out.[/quote]
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