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[quote=Anonymous][quote]You know very well that your parents are unreasonable. Your wife has drawn a healthy, reasonable boundary. Your parents' reaction is over the top, narcissistic, and emotionally abusive.[/quote]

+1000!  I know it's hard to overcome how your parents have conditioned you but the near unanimity (except for the 30 year old with limited life experience) on this thread has got to be sinking into you!  This is kind of agreement on DCUM is rare.  A good relationship counselor really can help you work through this.  What you're parents are doing is not normal and not natural.  You really don't want to get divorced, do you?  If you think you're miserable now, you're going to be far more miserable post divorce when you see your kids even less and have no partner to share your life with.  Is that what you want?

BTW - the reason you can't believe your parents would cut off contact with you and your kids is because you haven't recognized how they manipulate you to get what they want. You're just falling back into the patterns developed during your childhood.  It's so very unhealthy and just wrong. Counseling can help you learn to identify these patterns and how neutralize them.[/quote]

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