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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You say you have a new boyfriend.  Does he know you're obsessing over this?  You need to focus on making your own relationship your primary mission. And not want to be in your niece's life over this?  You're not in high school anymore. [/quote]

If you haven't heard OP, she said she has moved on (her bf isn't new) and had handled it appropriately. It's only since resurfaced because of the wedding bells and her nt being included in a family occasion. She doesn't seem as if she's obsessing over it at all - get off your high horse. [/quote]

She obviously has not moved on or she wouldn't be putting all of her energies and focus on this ancient history.  If your boyfriend or husband were obsessing over an old flame like this you'd tell him to grow a pair or you'd probably be feeling jealous and conclude that he is insecure or some possessive control freak who thinks "if I can't have her, nobody can."  If she's "moved on" she's not demonstrating that in her post.[/quote]

The last time I checked, the main focus was on the sister not the old flame. If her boyfriend of husband was obsessing over an old flame, and just that...then yes, there's an issue. This is a new dynamic because it includes her sister. If he didn't go and date and knock up her sister, the guy would be way out of her mind. [/quote]

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