Anonymous
Post 05/26/2014 13:55     Subject: I will NEVER forgive my sister
Anonymous wrote:This guy is awesome.

He's been inside the OP and her sister --

*** WINNER!!! ***

Whatever happens, nothing can take that away from him.


lol
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2014 13:53     Subject: Re:I will NEVER forgive my sister
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Just sleep with him after they marry and let your sister know what happened. Tell her that she now knows how it feels to be hurt.

She will then be as pissed off at you as you are at her!


Classy


Well, nothing about this situation is classy so from OP's standpoint as long as she does not get involved with the guy, it really would be sweet revenge.
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2014 13:40     Subject: I will NEVER forgive my sister
This guy is awesome.

He's been inside the OP and her sister --

*** WINNER!!! ***

Whatever happens, nothing can take that away from him.
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2014 13:23     Subject: I will NEVER forgive my sister
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You say you have a new boyfriend. Does he know you're obsessing over this? You need to focus on making your own relationship your primary mission. And not want to be in your niece's life over this? You're not in high school anymore.


If you haven't heard OP, she said she has moved on (her bf isn't new) and had handled it appropriately. It's only since resurfaced because of the wedding bells and her nt being included in a family occasion. She doesn't seem as if she's obsessing over it at all - get off your high horse.


She obviously has not moved on or she wouldn't be putting all of her energies and focus on this ancient history. If your boyfriend or husband were obsessing over an old flame like this you'd tell him to grow a pair or you'd probably be feeling jealous and conclude that he is insecure or some possessive control freak who thinks "if I can't have her, nobody can." If she's "moved on" she's not demonstrating that in her post.


The last time I checked, the main focus was on the sister not the old flame. If her boyfriend of husband was obsessing over an old flame, and just that...then yes, there's an issue. This is a new dynamic because it includes her sister. If he didn't go and date and knock up her sister, the guy would be way out of her mind.
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2014 13:20     Subject: I will NEVER forgive my sister
You sound like a poor me victim. Hurtful, I'm sure, but move on.
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2014 13:14     Subject: I will NEVER forgive my sister
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You say you have a new boyfriend. Does he know you're obsessing over this? You need to focus on making your own relationship your primary mission. And not want to be in your niece's life over this? You're not in high school anymore.


If you haven't heard OP, she said she has moved on (her bf isn't new) and had handled it appropriately. It's only since resurfaced because of the wedding bells and her nt being included in a family occasion. She doesn't seem as if she's obsessing over it at all - get off your high horse.


She obviously has not moved on or she wouldn't be putting all of her energies and focus on this ancient history. If your boyfriend or husband were obsessing over an old flame like this you'd tell him to grow a pair or you'd probably be feeling jealous and conclude that he is insecure or some possessive control freak who thinks "if I can't have her, nobody can." If she's "moved on" she's not demonstrating that in her post.
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2014 13:02     Subject: I will NEVER forgive my sister
Anonymous wrote:You say you have a new boyfriend. Does he know you're obsessing over this? You need to focus on making your own relationship your primary mission. And not want to be in your niece's life over this? You're not in high school anymore.


If you haven't heard OP, she said she has moved on (her bf isn't new) and had handled it appropriately. It's only since resurfaced because of the wedding bells and her nt being included in a family occasion. She doesn't seem as if she's obsessing over it at all - get off your high horse.
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2014 12:54     Subject: I will NEVER forgive my sister
Anonymous wrote:You can't have a relationship with your sister until she gets divorced.


I sadly agree with this.
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2014 12:52     Subject: Re:I will NEVER forgive my sister
Anonymous wrote:I can't believe the responses you are getting, OP. I too would be absolutely livid. She doesn't even have the decency to tell her future husband that he has treat you with respect? She is excluding you from the wedding? I think your hurt comes from the way they are treating you NOW, not the fling ( though it doesn't sound great either). I am so sorry. This is disgraceful.


+1 so sorry, OP.
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2014 12:50     Subject: I will NEVER forgive my sister
You can't have a relationship with your sister until she gets divorced.
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2014 12:48     Subject: I will NEVER forgive my sister
You say you have a new boyfriend. Does he know you're obsessing over this? You need to focus on making your own relationship your primary mission. And not want to be in your niece's life over this? You're not in high school anymore.
NOVATransplant
Post 05/26/2014 12:47     Subject: I will NEVER forgive my sister
It takes two to tango. It's been FIVE years. Move on. Sounds like you could benefit from some counseling. Get it and move on. Maybe it's HIM who doesn't want you at the wedding because he knows you need to MOVE ON.
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2014 12:45     Subject: I will NEVER forgive my sister
How long, OP, before you begin having heart to hearts, then trysts with your sister's new husband? I'm excited for the next installment of this soap opera.
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2014 12:42     Subject: I will NEVER forgive my sister
She'll need your love and support in a few years when she is wondering where he is at 1 AM, they have a sexless marriage, he doesn't do his share of the housework/childcare, etc. etc.
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2014 12:32     Subject: I will NEVER forgive my sister
troll