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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Chess nerds can be assholes, FYI.

And I find the whole premise of this question sexist. [b]Nobody would ever ask why, given the choice, a man would chose to date a super hot, popular model over a mousy, shy girl[/b].[/quote]

Disagree.  Some of these mousy, shy girls are much better in bed and all around nicer people than the prom queen.[/quote]

Different poster, you're missing the point PP.  The PP you're responding to is not saying mousy shy girls aren't great catches.  S/he is pointing out that the original question is sexist (I agree) because the whole premise is that somehow girls/women like assholes and miss the chess nerd gems because women are superficial.  Yet OP doesn't question (and really, does anyone?) why MEN, not only in high school and college but on into maturity, would rather get a super hot chick popular girl/woman over a mousy shy girl.

In other words, it's very likely OP was lusting after the very same types of girls in high school and college that he felt the girls wanted as guys.  Because we were all in high school and college - we ALL KNOW there were plenty of mousy shy girls (some of us were them!) who would have done anything for the chess nerd to notice us, but he was too busy staring at the prettier, more popular girls.  OP's premise is hypocritical, as if it's only something girls do.[/quote]

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