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[quote=Anonymous]OP, everything you describe about your DH sounds identical to mine. What's worse - I am a minimalist who could live with a fork and a toothbrush and a change of clothes. :) Maybe he's a hoarder. Maybe he has OCD. Who knows. I don't think that you can change people, though, and I don't think you can get people to go to therapy and have it work unless it is their idea. So, a policy of containment is a good strategy. The upstairs and main floor in our house are mine. The basement and garage are his to trash. It's a compromise that has worked well for us. :) As for him buying things he doesn't need, try a budget or separate accounts so he can do that and let it go. [/quote]
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