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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I'm the people-pleaser PP.

I understand it is hard when your child is so different from you, especially since you and DH have hit all the traditional markers for success, but you need to really consider what it means to be successful. After about 22, it's not about grades and scores. It's about having a sense of direction when the world doesn't tell you what is best. It's about work ethic, creativity, dedication, -- feeling productive and content, etc. Does he have that? Does he care about anything? Is he passionate about anything? Does he work toward anything? Have you spoken to his teachers about your concerns?

DH's older brother excelled academically and professionally. He was always the golden child. DH was lost for a while, and I'm sure his parents were concerned. But he is more intuitive and perceptive. He is also capable. But he's laid back, patient, and values the work-life balance a lot more than a lot of the 20-/30-somethings we know who are far more ambitious in their careers. It took him time to come into his own and find his niche, but now he's got a great career and lots of important goals he's working toward.

I share this to help you see your child from a different perspective.[/quote]

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